IQ is one's ability to learn and is generally the same at age
15 - 50. So what happens when IQ and Ego meet?
Picture the scene... It's 6pm and you having a couple of
drinks after work with some work colleagues, and there is always one guy who
just has to be heard... call him John.
Now John seems to constantly worm his way into every
discussion, making "faux pas after faux pas" and professes to be a
master on every subject... Ring a bell?... Meanwhile... Within the space of a
millisecond, your mind has summed him up... more likely a Jack of all...
So why is it, our minds instantaneously resort to such
judgement?
Well firstly, if we possess some of this "SECRET
SAUCE" ourselves, the FEELING we have just experienced is a sensory signal
transmitted from the spine and anterior of the brain, where the EMOTIVE CENTRE
lies.
This is generally followed by a need to REACT, just as soon
as the signal reaches the frontal lobe of the brain; our RATIONAL CENTRE.
Depending on our level of SELF-AWARENESS at the time, the
resulting ACTION/REACTION or the lack thereof, is the measure of EQ we are
utilising at that given moment.
Very simply put, "EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE" is the
foundation for CRITICAL SKILLS, pertaining to being in a state of
SELF-AWARENESS, ACCURATELY IDENTIFYING with our EMOTIONS, and MANAGING our
BEHAVIOUR, TENDENCIES and RELATIONSHIPS accordingly.
Further studies in the US, report, subjects with HIGH EQ's,
earn $29 000 MORE per year, across ALL INDUSTRIES, at ALL LEVELS, in EVERY
REGION of the WORLD.
Subjects with LOW EQ are more likely to experience ANXIETY,
DEPRESSION and SUBSTANCE ABUSE, given their lack of ability to IDENTIFY with
their EMOTIONS, resulting in IRRATIONAL OUTBURSTS and the inability to apply
SOCIAL COMPETENCE.
This adds a whole new meaning to the statement "COWBOYS
DON'T CRY", clearly you can see how this would limit one's potential for
EQ growth, in a once chauvinist society that called for MEN to refrain from
showing their FEELINGS.
So CHANGE your FOCUS. Become tuned-in to your EMOTIONS. Take
note of the way you feel and the reactions stimulated within you.
Apply COMMON SENSE and decide whether the response is
BEFITTING or not.
Not only will your health benefit, it seems, so will your
bank balance.
"IQ + EQ = SUCCESS.
That is interesting
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